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Written by Dr. Tim Potter
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Sometimes we expect too much of ourselves, of others, and of our horses. I believe that many times we fail to recognize small displays of progress with our horses. Tucker can be, shall we say, focused on his will and his intended direction. When I began working with him, it seemed that going through a gate was a challenge, as he would stiffen his neck and go wherever he wanted.
Before I knew the Lord, my response probably would have resulted in a fight with him, which I would undoubtedly lose. Instead, I chose to work with him, teaching him about responding positively to pressure as we navigated such things as gates. Today he is much more responsive and will in fact tip his nose toward me when we negotiate the gate.
I believe that this has been accomplished with Tucker through recognizing, early on, the small, albeit positive responses that he gave me in response to my requests, as well as the subsequent positive reinforcement that he received.
Proverbs 3:6 says “In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths”. We cannot ask our children, our spouses, our co-workers or our horses to make dramatic changes overnight. All of our relationships are a work in progress, and we should be cognizant of positive results as they occur.
Recognize, reward, and encourage. I believe you will be amazed at the outcome.
Dr. Tim Potter
Ministry on Horseback
www.ministryonhorseback.com
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Last Updated on Tuesday, 10 February 2009 05:50 |